Mend The Bond

As I close my eyes and drift away to a land where there is love, joy, peace and blessings. I wanted to take the time to think and reflect. 

     The truth is that I was taking the time to think about my Super Shazi Bowl™ workshop, that I am currently designing. Part of the reason for the development of this workshop was because I found a need for a workshop that inspired effective communication skills. I realized that there was a deep need for this, especially for families that have suffered from break down, friendships, loss, or trauma. I decided to create this constructive model where participants could walk away with specific tools, and skills. Family breakdown can happen, there is a breakdown in communication, the people involved fail to understand, or even want to cut you out of their lives, because of a lack of care. 

​     However, what these individuals need to understand is that when there is family, relationship, or friendship breakdown, there will be a toll upon the human state. This is not a type of attention seeking, nor is it an excuse, it is the brains automatic response. Trauma healing happens everyday. Is does not end when a workshop or a physical fitness session is over. Healing is a process. This does not mean that there is a dwelling on the healing, it means that a person tries to use coping mechanisms to continue everyday, it is daily living. 

     
     For families members who do decide to walk away, they are actually creating more harm, they are hurting the very individual who probably needs them the most at this time of vulnerability. For those members that do decide to walk away, no one can force family, friends, and relative to stay, once they realize that a person has issues, they may decide to walk away. 

     For those that do decide to walkaway, they have also walked away from a social responsibility of care, and love for the vulnerable. I wonder how they sleep at night, knowing that they could have helped someone but choose not to, because of their judgements. Having said this - I remind myself, we can never force love from others.

    So this is why I developed the Super Shazi Bowl™ Model, it is a type of preventative structure to heal relationships, and also to provide active tools to those who need help to re-build and re-new relationships. It does not matter how hurt relations are, there is always a way to mend the bond. What is important is the willingness for family, freinds, and relations to have a conversation that is founded upon understanding, a rebuilding of trust, and not about who is right, and who is wrong. Mend the bond. :) 
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Dedication: These words are dedicated to any who need a healing, a gentle touch, you are loved. My thoughts to share with love and kindness! :)

Notes: These thoughts were originally hand - written on February 25th, 2017
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