Heart's, Forever! :)

As I close my eyes and drift away to a land where there is love, health, peace and blessings. I wanted to take the time to think and reflect.

     The truth is that whenever moments are available, I've been in a state of reflection. Thinking about the next phases of life, and how what one imagines can truly turn to reality. It is quite natural to feel a sense of insecurity, fear, and wonder as we begin a new phase / chapter - sort of like a gamble. Maybe that's what life altering / changing decisions are? A gamble upon life? But knowing part of the unknown  spaces - is knowing that one has partaken in huge life altering / changing decisions. What one knew, thought of, or even envisioned for life might not have manifested as desired, because as humans we tend to sway towards conventions, norms, and what is deemed as the perfect life at the macro levels. But really what is perfection / imperfection what we are truly made as perfect beings? Except that ones views or how life has manifested for one another / each other is different. But then we can simply add - If each of us was made or create our lives in the same way, then each others contribution would be the same. But then we have to remember that there are many facets of life that need to be tended too. So it's a good thing that we all desire our unique ways.

     But even when there are life altering decision / changes we don't necessarily have to move forward into the unknown spaces on our own, the space also known as the transitional phase. As humans we tend to want some sort of familiarity as we move through transitions. Metaphorically as being held. Even as we change, progress, we don't have to give up what we had, but rather continue to cradle, love, hold each other, through each others tenderness, hence; the very reason for transitional objects, derived from the "Transitional Objects and Transitional Phenomena." (Winnicott, p. 1, 2005) This theory is utilized to describe a baby/infant/child's phases/stages of relational experiences with the world. For instance: the stages of breast feeding, weaning and then utensils such as cups for drinking. This example does take us right back to being a new born infant, but I would also argue that phases as these, and the need for transitional objects continues throughout life, hence; the very reason for this meditation. 

     As I too reflect upon the incredible honor that it has been to write and share my thoughts on this website entitled: Committed To Love. Thank you everyone for your readership, as I welcome you all and ask for your loving support as I begin to create and develop a new website called Heart's, Forever! :) This name is very special to me and is a reflection of the thoughts that I have shared here. And to always serve as a reminder that Hearts Joined Can Never Be Separated.  Heart's Joined Can Never Be Separated = ∞. Heart's, Forever! :)

Notes:
Please stay tuned for my new website - which will also be a new learning curve for me. If I continue to face technical issues, or need to write / publish urgently (which might happen) I will utilize my current website in the interim. Thank you always and forever!

Reference: 
Winnicott. D. W. (2005). Playing and Reality. New York , NY: Routledge

My thoughts to share with love & kindness! :) 

Notes: These thoughts were originally hand-written on November 20th, 2019.
Image 1 - Canva Creation.