As I close my eyes and drift away to a land where there is love, health, peace, and blessings. I wanted to take the time to think and reflect upon the idea of being a mother. The truth is that when we become a mother, having the time and space to think about how it feels to become a mother is sometimes rare. This is actually quite true for me, especially because I was young mother. As a mother I had to become a responsible young adult, giving up much of what was the norm for my peer group. The life experiences that arrived have been such a beautiful life gift, experiences that you cannot gain from any book, or even another person. We can gain so much new learning from life experiences, there is so much wealth in these, as you are able to see from many different perspectives and angles. This is the beauty and gift of becoming a mother. We always put the good and well - being of our children in - front. Sometimes we can make a decision that the children do not agree with, as adults this decision is made because we we feel that it is in the best interest of the child. This is what unconditional love of a mother is. A mother does not see a race, ethnicity, gender, sexuality, or ability as a force to create divisions. A mothers sees and seeks what is in the best interest of the child. But what about the child who has become dis-respectful? Or is constantly bullying a mother? You see a mother's love never dies. It doesn't matter if the child becomes a bully to the mother, but it will mean that the mother has to set some rules, make room for discussion, and set boundaries if needed. No one has the right to bully a mother, not in my books. When these rules are set, we are not saying that we don't care, It is saying that maybe it is time for the child (young adult) to discover the world, and in time maybe once again the child will return, into the healthy wholesome space of love. This is the beauty of a mother. A mother will always remain patient - her love does not end. It is an endless ocean, simply waves that desire the best for the child. A navigation of life itself. Dedication: The words of this being are dedicated to all beings, the children of the world. Life is a beautiful gift, love is everything. My thoughts to share with love & kindness! :) Notes: These thoughts were originally hand - written on November 15th 2016. Image 1 - Web link Image 2- Web link Image 3 - Web link Image 4 - Web link
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